Is sex doll a bad thing?

 Before writing this article, I received a message from a potential buyer in the store asking us whether sex dolls would be good for him in the long run.

This is a difficult question to answer. We are not an authority on the moral dilemma of sex dolls, nor whether it poses a risk to you or society in the long run.

But this makes me think, are sex dolls good for us?

After researching, I came to the conclusion that, in fact, there are more reasons for sex dolls in our society than for disadvantages. Although sex dolls are worthy of discussion and morally ambiguous, sex dolls can indeed comfort some real people who have real needs. For example, if a man who likes a big butt has no such partner in his life, he can buy a big butt sex dolls to meet your needs, to satisfy yourself, and to make your life more normal. You must know that it is a very bad thing to be suppressed for a long time.

I decided to compose this article by looking at both sides of the argument from the perspective of moral dilemmas, the impact on our society, and the individual's reaction to the exposure of sex dolls.

I am answering this question for adult sex dolls, those full-size sex dolls

Sex dolls can reinforce negative behaviors

 

Sex dolls are inanimate objects and have no personality. Just like games, movies, guns and other things, the people who use them will define their relationship to objects.

On the other hand, some people believe that sex dolls will reinforce the existing negative behaviors they constitute. I conducted serious research and found some examples that can be debated:

 

Sex dolls create unrealistic expectations

Some people do believe that fantasy sex dolls have a negative effect on people, especially men. A study shows that men who seek fantasy sex dolls for sexual gratification often lack sympathy. It can be said that men who lack empathy may have harmful expectations of relationships with women through the use of dolls. Sex with a doll is irreversible, the user is always in control, and his only worry is his own needs. If the person engages in sexual activity with someone, their lack of compassion and expectations of sex may cause bigger problems, such as not being able to recognize the needs of their partner, or even worse, not being able to tell when their partner is uncomfortable .

It can be said that most people make sense. As humans, we have the ability to understand and make conscious decisions about the world around us. As users of sex dolls, even if we lack empathy, we can easily distinguish between the two. In the privacy of our home, there is a huge difference between what happens to a doll and how we treat another person. Humans know the limits, those who do not make up a small part of our population. In the United States, only about 2.8% of people are under criminal supervision. Although this statistic is not important, it is a good illustration of the proportion of the population that decides to violate social rules. I think this number will not increase due to the use of sex dolls.

 

Sex dolls isolate themselves from society

 

Another popular view against the use of TPE sex dolls is that people who use sex dolls isolate themselves from society. Some people have social fears, which may be caused by a variety of complex reasons. Some psychologists worry that having sex dolls will further isolate the person and prevent them from seeking social relationships and finding the root cause of their problems. National Institute of Population and Social Security

 

Some theorists even link the increase in male segregation (MGTOW) with the increase in prostitution, pornography and sex toys.

 

However, the problem with these theories is that they are inductive methods, not from a macro perspective to solve the problem, but from a simple method to focus on the cause. It is true that acquiring sexual fantasies can replace real sexual activity, but prostitution, strippers and pornography have existed for many years (prostitution is the oldest profession), and the family sector has survived and developed to this day. There are many factors that influence the number of men deprived of rights and why more men decide to separate themselves from women.

 

In addition to the growing sex industry, there is also an increase in the number of women in the workplace and online dating.

 

Feminism and equality are good things, but it does have its consequences. It makes women stronger in society, and many women are considered to have increasingly masculine characteristics and pursue male-dominated fields. Society elevates the role of women from a support role to a leadership role. This leads to changes in relationship dynamics. In addition, in modern society, among women, women hold more and more positions, the number of dominant universities has increased, and more people enter the workforce than men. It’s fair to say that men and women have more and more equal rights