One in five Japanese men will always be single! Rely on silicone dolls

 In the past, many people thought that getting married and having children was an essential part of life. Whether it is true love or consideration of childbirth, at least most people live by default rules.

However, in recent years, the marriage rate and birth rate have been declining, and more and more young people choose to be single, escape and refuse to get married. This is especially true in Japan, where one third of young people have no dating experience.

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And there is no experience in association, not being forced, but he is not willing to take the initiative to contact the opposite sex.

Boys and girls have their own reasons not to date. From the boy's point of view, it was not that he didn't want to find a girlfriend at all at first, but was always hit by reality.

Girls often say that they want a partner with a sense of humor, so if you are a comedian, you should be popular, but you are not.

Ben guigugo and yoyo yoyo are interesting artists, but their respective paths of love are not good. Benji's personal experience led him to conclude that although women find funny guys funny, they don't know them because they are funny.

When it comes to relationships, many girls also want masculinity or gentlemanliness, not just a sense of humor.

They often mention the word "herb-eating" in their jokes. This is also a popular phrase in Japan. The so-called herbivorous men are shy little boys who cannot actively fall in love.

Mei Nong considers himself a herbivorous man because he is 22 years old this year and has no relationship experience so far. Although he can communicate with the girls normally, once he is alone with them, he still feels that if he wants to do something private, the girls will be disgusted.

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Therefore, Mino and Benji transferred all interactions with women to the maid cafe. Instead of trying to communicate with ordinary women, try to interact directly with the waitress in the maid cafe.

As a kind of culture in Japan, maid cafes can be seen almost everywhere. The waiter of the maid cafe will actively interact with the male guests, and like a spoiled performance Ministry of Education, never show any disgust or boredom, which makes the boys feel that they are also loved and welcomed.

Benji thinks that going to a maid cafe is better than going out with an ordinary girl without worrying about being rejected.

Nowadays, many young people in Japan have poor psychological endurance, and they are afraid of rejection and harm. Therefore, they will never take the initiative to pursue girls, but choose a 100% non-rejection method, such as the pink girl aiko.

Of course, they are also very aware that it is difficult for them to express their true feelings in marriage. However, spending money to follow female lovers is stable. As fans, they also have the opportunity to interact closely with female lovers, which makes them feel very happy and satisfied.

As long as they spend time and money, they can easily get what they think is a "romantic relationship." Therefore, more and more people are unwilling to find love in real life, but are addicted to this artificial "romantic relationship."

Among them, some go more extreme. For example, Hiroyuki nomura is now 50 years old, his partner is a silicone doll, and he is the first girl in his life.

He named the doll tisei, and she is a life-size silicone doll. Nomura initially bought her back as a commodity. But later, we got along with each other and gradually developed a good impression on the doll.

Later, Nomura bought more and more dolls and kept them at home. He dressed them and combed their hair, feeling as if they were alive.

During the holidays, he would take the doll to play with, drive and play on the swing, which made him no longer feel alone.

Nomura is in her fifties and has never had a relationship with a real woman. He thinks that a doll can heal him, and he doesn't need another partner.

Since many men choose not to fall in love, what is the situation of women? Japan does have more women joining the labor force than ever before.

It seems that contact with men has increased, but women entering the workplace are actually competing with men when working with men. The possibility of becoming a boyfriend or girlfriend is lower.

The concept of women who want to join the workforce has changed dramatically. They also have their own professional ambitions. They once thought that marriage was a necessary condition for women. Now, many women are thinking for themselves whether they need to get married.

Regardless of men and women, young Japanese people's willingness to marry has declined significantly. We will not go out, let alone get married. Low marriage rates lead to low fertility rates, and with it a population decline.

The problem of negative population growth has almost become a big problem for the Japanese government. In some small urban areas in the countryside, the population is decreasing and many shops are closing.

This village has become a ghost town, just like Gaowu Village. Gaowu Village has only 2,800 residents, but the population has been reduced by half in the past 20 years. Many families have also moved out of the village and into the big cities.

In order to encourage young people to marry, many places in small cities began to hold blind dates publicly, bringing young people together and allowing them to communicate face to face.

Dating and marriage have risen to the level of national concern, and one in five Japanese men remains single throughout their lives.

More importantly, these people have accepted this state of living alone with their own consciousness and do not want to change their minds.

In addition, Japan’s primitive otaku culture is deeply rooted, and these mentally handicapped people have many channels to obtain the spiritual comfort they want. Compared with relationships that may cause harm in real life, they just choose to bandage themselves and live in their comfort zone.

As for loneliness, it is obvious that whether they are addicted to fantasy men or women who discover their own self-worth, their lives are full of what they want. Regardless of the secular vision, there is no right or wrong personally, but different choices.

People's views on marriage and childbearing are different from the past. This is a personal choice, perhaps the choice of The Times. After all, no one knows where they will eventually go.